"Work from Home Wednesday" LinkedIn live series continues in February with a workshop on coaching skills. Come learn and practice techniques for helping guide your peers and reports solve their own challenges with their own tools.
When? Wednesday, 2/8 @ 12PM PT
Where? LinkedIn
What? This Month's Topic: Coaching Skills
Click the link below to register for the event and I’ll see you on LinkedIn next Wednesday!
Does your social identity change when you’re working from home?
Social identity comes in many forms, and shows up for everyone in different ways on different days. I’ve found that one of the most helpful tools for discussing personal identity in my manager training workshops is the “social identity wheel”, a visual aid that displays the various identifying characteristics a person might feel about themselves at a given time.
For the same person, different aspects of the wheel might feel more salient (or at the surface) in some settings, while in other environments, they might be less top of mind.
For example, when I’m facilitating in a room full of C-suite executives 20 or 30 years older than me, my age is always top of mind. However when I'm teaching to international groups where English isn’t the first language of the majority of the audience, my own language ability and national origin are at the forefront for me. Whether you feel part of the “in-group” or “out-group” can also affect which parts of your identity are most “top of mind” to you at a given time.
This all leads me to the big question of the day - how do our identities show up differently when we’re working from home? I know that during the lockdown, it was clear to me that being a parent or caretaker was something that was very visible for many, having to manager childcare with kids at home and doing double (or triple) duty as a parent, teacher and worker had many work from home parents feeling completely overwhelmed.
Many other aspects of identity that were exciting and energizing to share with colleagues in the office have become harder to express in a remote work environment. Sharing one’s personality through fashion, body language or voice has been harder. Sharing religious holidays or traditions with colleagues through celebration, food or drink has also become harder to do.
But then again, the flip side is also true - target identities, “social identity groups that are positioned as targeted by oppression, to be disenfranchised, subordinated, exploited and/or otherwise harmed” may find that working from home grants some relief from harm. For instance, people with physical or mobility limitations don’t have to endure through challenging commutes, less-than accessible office buildings or conference rooms without adequate support.
How has your own conception of personal identity at your job changed while working from home? If you’re in a hybrid work situation, does your identity feel different on the days you’re in-person vs. the days you work from home? If you’re comfortable, please reply back to this email with your reflections, I’d love to hear them!
Quick Reads:
A “how-to” for hybrid work - All In person work should be “Voluntary, Strategic and Intentional”. I love the suggestions here about how to push back on the myths of the benefits of in-person work. Just because you don’t know how to do something (yet), doesn’t mean it’s wrong!
Actionable ideas for hybrid meetings - Simple and practical ways to make your hybrid meetings more human.
Virtual Public Speaking
When presenting on video calls, do you ever think…
I don’t know where to look. Do I look at the camera? At my slides? I've been doing this for months and it still feels awkward to me.
I have no idea if anyone is paying attention. I feel like my ideas are strong but I don't know how to engage the virtual audience in discussions. Whenever I ask a question all I hear is crickets.
I feel nervous even though I know what I'm talking about. I used to present in meetings all the time in person, but now when I'm working from home I don't have the same level of confidence sharing in hybrid meetings.
We have officially launched our “Virtual Public Speaking Skills” Online Class!
This self-directed, online video class is perfect for experienced presenters looking to "level-up" their virtual communication techniques. By the end of the course you'll be confidently preparing for virtual meetings, "dominating the mechanics" of virtual presentation software, engaging with your audience in quality two-way dialogue and wow-ing each and every virtual audience you find yourself in front of!
Want a Workshop or Coaching for Your Team?
Oak and Reeds offers training on hybrid communication, managing remote teams, interviewer skills, change leadership and more.
All our trainings can be conducted virtually using Zoom or in person.
Interested in scheduling a training for a team? Click the link below to set up some time to chat with Dave Collins about your training and coaching needs:
The new year signals an opportunity to have those meaningful conversations. As we continue to adapt to a remote-first work setup, how do we make sure our people are equipped to balance productivity with their personal wellbeing?
How do we ensure that 2021 is a year we look back on as one of focused growth and development instead of a chaotic, stress-inducing mess?
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